Some of us don’t like asking for help.
Having been told our whole lives that we are selfish.
From the messed up people projecting their selfishness on to us.
Or projecting other people’s selfishness on to us
that was passed on to them.
All of this unconscious I believe.
That part of us that needs help has been severely shamed.
But it is possible.
I have done it a little bit lately, asking for help that is.
And I even was able to do it before, somehow…..
Also to do for myself and to feel my strength is a good thing.
That wasn’t encouraged either.